STOP. Don’t you dare send a text message – not a single one – until you’ve read every word that follows. Because I am going to tell you exactly how to text girls you like so that you make them smile, build attraction to you, and move things forward.
Trust me – I remember the days when I sucked at text messaging. I would sit around for minutes… sometimes even hours… trying to come up with something witty or clever to text her. Then I’d agonize about whether it was the right thing to send her. And I’d get SO frustrated when I was waiting to hear back from her… and my phone binged to tell me I had a new message… and it wasn’t from her.
Here we are, several years later, and I’m the unofficial texting king of the Internet. Kind of a dubious distinction – I’ll admit it. But considering how many people have read and shared stuff I’ve written like the Dirtiest Dream for Turning A Girl On With Text Messaging or the Odd Time Technique I use to Ask A Girl Out, I think it’s safe to say that I’m the most copied texter in the world!
That’s all well and good, but now that you know about me and why you’ve come to the right place, let’s talk about you.
You’ve got a girl’s number.
Text Girls, Principle 1
I remember I that my first texts were the toughest part – I’d spend hours writing them. And they’d often come out with me sending something like “what’s up?” or “hey, good to meet ya”. I was afraid of losing girls I was really into. But every dude sends her these sorts of texts, and it doesn’t give her a lot to go on. Why should she get excited about responding to something like this? Instead, your goal with almost every message you send should be “how can I make her smile with what I’m about to send her?” If you can start doing this more, you’ll do so much better with texting girls. Learn about the first text message to send to a girl.
Text Girls: Principle 2
It’s tempting to try to push for things quickly. But don’t show all your cards at once, homeboy. Don’t make the game too easy for your object of affection. Otherwise, she’ll think that you don’t have anything better going on. So in the early phases, don’t write her back ASAP – wait to spend about the same time it took for her to get back to you. And when it comes time to ask her out, tease her a little bit – “ok, we can go out, but just don’t embarrass me with any tube stockings 
” She’ll giggle at the playful challenge you’ve set up for her. You also might want to learn how to flirt with a girl over text.
Text Girls: Principle 3
This one is easy for guys to mess up. They try to demonstrate their coolness to a girl because of the event they’re going to, the peeps they know, the things they’re doing, and so on. And in principle, this is ok – occasionally I will text a girl and tell her that I’m “only going to the most fun bar on planet earth” – but pay attention: I said fun – not most VIP or coolest. Whopping difference. If you ever start thinking to yourself something like “she’ll be impressed by this” then don’t send that text message. Remember – is it something that’s actually going to make her smile? And if you really want to know what to text a girl, then please join me over on my main site to learn more.
